Ever wonder why people who dated happily for 10 years, then decided to
get married, suddenly find themselves divorced shortly there after? This
is just one of many situations where accepting labels destroys us.
At
any given time, we can do or be nearly anything we want. But as soon as
a label is placed upon us and we accept it, it changes our perception
on how things should be, and therefore how we act.
It goes like this, LABELS -> EXPECTATIONS -> DISAPPOINTMENTS
So
we're branded with a label, for instance "husband". People who get
married act the part, they play the role that they believe they should
play. Where as while they were just dating there was no marriage label
and therefore much less expectations. What is expected out of boyfriend,
is not near what is expected out of a husband. What is expected of a
private, is not near what is expected out of a General.
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